Five of cups

This is the 5th card in the Cups suit, it represents loss, grief, mourning and saddened states of being. It foreshadows emotionally tumultuous and challenging times.

Five of Cups [Upright]

On this card, we have a gloomy figure garbed in black, around it are 5 cups, three spilt in front of her, two standing upright behind her. So immediately we know that all is not lost, but the person is focusing on that which she lost.

The sky is grey, hopeless, the ground is yellow, like the cups, there’s a river behind the three spilt cups, a bridge in the distance and some abode in the far distance. This serves to depict the feelings of isolation, loneliness and despair.

Beneath the 2 of the spilt cups, there’s a red liquid, it could be wine, it could be blood, so the loss is grave, but if the figure would just turn around, it would figure that not all is lost and there’s still some saving grace to be focused upon.

Five of Cups Keywords [Upright]

  • Grief
  • Mourning
  • Loss
  • Disappointment
  • Sadness
  • Being let down
  • Gloom
  • Discontent

Five of Cups Meaning [Upright]

This is one of the hardest cards of the Minor Arcana to come up in a reading, it foretells a divorce, separation, breakup, despair, depression, end of a friendship, regret and sorrow.

Melancholy, sadness and despair are unusually strong in Five of Cups, what’s even worse, this card can be an omen of a (family) curse when it comes up in a reading next to the Moon and the High Priestess. Someone very close to you with a grudge has made their ill intent focused on you.

This card is the representation of crying over spilt milk, refusing to acknowledge that the two cups are still remaining in the background – some blessings are still left to be found, alas, the reader/asker is unable to focus on that.

Key Points – Love [Upright]

  • This is not a card you want to see in any reading, but especially not in a love reading as it acts as an omen of awaiting separation or divorce. You tried making things work, but they just didn’t.
  • The good thing is that not all is lost, there’s still something that can be a silver lining, something you can be positive about if you would just turn around and find the good points in the sad situation that has stricken you.

Key Points – Money [Upright]

  • When this minor arcana shows up in a money reading it foretells of a financial loss, but unlike its reversed position, not all is lost; on the contrary, there’s still something to be learnt and taken out of this unfavorable situation.
  • The message here is to focus on the remaining blessings and to take this lesson to heart for future references, lest it happens again.

Key Points - Career [Upright]

  • When the Five of Cups shows up in a career reading it’s telling you to abandon your current goals for they aren’t bringing you happiness nor success.
  • You should focus on something you’ve forgotten, something that you were good at in the past, but you let it fade to black in order to focus on something else, something that is failing you right now.

Five of Cups [Reversed]

Five of Cups reversed is even worse than its upright occurrence. It means that all the cups are empty, and there’s a grave loss between you and your happiness.

This card is tied to Mars in Scorpio, and it is governed by the Lord of Lost Pleasures, and as such, this is a caution that you have spent too much time in mourning and wailing, the time has come for you to move on and let it all go.

five of Cups Keywords [Reverse]

  • Acceptance
  • Complete abandon
  • All is lost
  • Inevitability
  • Contempt
  • Harsh truth
  • Emotional struggle
  • Letting go

Five of Cups Meaning [Reverse]

This card showing up reversed has a meaning that after all has been lost, the time to accept, move on and gain clarity from the harsh situation has come.

You need to be free and unburdened again in order to flourish and thrive. The time for mourning and sadness has passed, it’s time to move on and be whole again. Heal yourself by giving permission to yourself to start anew and put it all behind you.

Key Points - Love [Reversed]

  • When the Five of Cups shows reversed in a love reading it means that all is indeed lost, there’s nothing else left to be done and separation/breakup/divorce is long overdue.
  • There’s nothing left to be gained from staying in this situation, it’s time to move on to greener pastures and be happy again.

Key Points - Money [Reversed]

  • In a money reading, Five of Cups reversed tells of a complete and utter loss. It’s never a good card to show up when money is concerned. Someone has played you, and possibly you’ve played yourself the most, now is the time to recuperate, gather your strength and start from scratch

Key Points - Career [Reversed]

  • All is lost, there’s nothing left to lose, this is an end to one cycle, give yourself a rest and time to heal before starting a new cycle from the beginning
  • If nothing else, you’ve learned a valuable lesson from this experience, you can only accept what happened now, be wiser for it and move on.

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